Killer Presentation Skills – How to Overcome 3 Barriers to Better Public Speaking

You know that improved presentation skills lead to better leadership and greater success. And you do want improved leadership and success, right?

Then, like most people, you probably find the barriers can be forbidding and intimidating. Here are 3 barriers, and strategies to overcome them.

Barrier #1: The amorphous nature of presentation skills. It’s not something that most people are good at, and even if they were, it’s not like sitting down with someone and spending a few hours going over the basics.

Improvement requires a structured, disciplined approach. Mentoring by good public speakers in your organization won’t work. Nor will self-study.

Strategy for Overcoming Barrier #1: Look for a solution that has a smaller number of participants that usual. I suggest something that has a maximum of 7-10 participants, because this allows participants to delve deep into the skills and concepts necessary for rapid improvement.

Barrier #2: The Time Factor. Some solutions are over a time frame that’s too short. Most training firms do this in 2 or 3 continuous days. With today’s fast and furious hectic pace, requiring people to take this much time off at once just isn’t practical or productive.

And, improvement in presentation skills just doesn’t lend itself to such a short time.

Other solutions take too long. Joining Toastmasters is great, but it does take a long time to really learn everything. The same applies to enrolling in a public speaking skills class at your local college.

Strategy for Overcoming Barrier #2: Search for a solution that is provides training/coaching over a shorter period, perhaps 8-10 weeks. The accelerated nature of this solution addresses the too long/too short barrier.

For example, 6 half-days every other week is much more manageable than 3, 2, or even 1 full day away from work.

A more spread out format (bi-weekly or every 3 weeks) allows participants to adequately prepare for the speeches in the next session, and lets them try out newly learned techniques in the real world of their jobs.

Barrier #3: Lack of metrics for success. In a sense, this barrier is related to Barrier #1 (the amorphous nature of presentation skills), but it really is a separate barrier. Most training programs don’t really measure improvement.

In my coaching and consulting, I emphasize the importance of metrics. I often say, “If you’re not measuring this, how will you know if you’re improving?”

Strategy for Overcoming Barrier #3: Two ways. First, participants should take some sort of self-assessment before and after the training or coaching. This gives them a clear understanding of how much they’ve improved.

The other way of overcoming this barrier uses an evaluation form during the training, so that participants use the form to evaluate others’ speeches.

After the training or coaching, you can use this form when doing a presentation; give it to someone in the audience so that person can evaluate your speech. This way you’re continually improving after the training or coaching.

So, yes, the barriers can seem overwhelming, but the right strategies will get you over the top, and on the way to improved public speaking.

Engagement Presents: A Top 5

It’s not every day that someone close to you gets engaged, so when they do, a congratulations card doesn’t always cut it. That being the case, give some thought to personalised engagement gifts. They’re not your bog-standard engagement presents, based on the fact that yep, you guessed it, they can be personalised with the details of your choice – typically a name and message. Here, we give you a rundown on five of the most popular engagement presents. Just don’t be fooled into thinking this list is anything close to extensive – it’s far from it.

Engagement wine and champagne

Nothing says congrats quite like popping open a bottle of champers. If it sounds like your cup of tea, too, you can buy personalised champagne that includes a label of your choice that can be customised to include the couple’s names and a message. If you’d rather not plump for bubbles, meanwhile, personalised red, white and rosé wine come with exactly the same personalisation options.

Engraved crystal

If you fancy supplementing your champagne or wine, the obvious thing to do is engrave a pair of crystal glasses for the happy couple. There’s the option of champagne flutes or wine glasses, each of which can be personalised to include your couple’s names, date and a brief message. After that, we’ll pack the glasses into a swish satin-lined box. Very posh.

Engagement personalised newspaper

For a light-hearted engagement present, a spoof newspaper from the Daily Mirror is a safe bet. With this, you can personalise the front page of the paper to include the couple’s full names, where they live, the date and even the ‘writer’ of the piece. They’ll then be incorporated into the front page’s leading story. To top it all of you can also upload a photo of them to feature next to the ‘article’.

Love and Romance Personalised Diaries and Calendars

As personalised engagement gifts go, they don’t come much more handy, or personal, than the ‘Love and Romance’ calendars. Not only can you include names and a message, but if you buy the largest version, you’ll also get to include 20 specific dates relevant to the couple. What’s more, both the calendar and the diary can begin from a month of your choosing, not just January.

London Eye Cruise for Two

This cruise will allow the happy couple to enjoy a leisurely sightseeing cruise down the Thames over the course of a day. They can hop on and off as much as they like, so not only will they get a real insight into the capital’s history, but it’s really convenient, too. To round things off in style, they’ll also get a ‘flight’ on the London Eye. Happy days.

A Helping Guide to Choosing Presents For Men

When it comes to gifts for men, things become a little tougher. Gifts for men have little scope for improvisation as compared to women. But, it does not mean that you cannot find gifts for them, you just need to consider some aspects before you go shopping.

How to choose gifts and presents for men:

First thing you need to consider is his choices, likes and dislikes. It is always a good idea to gift a person of his/ her own choice. So, try to know about his likes and dislikes before choosing any gift. This point becomes important when you are picking up a gift for him.
If he is more interested in sports and different games, then try to guess the sport he is just crazy about. If it is golf, then you can gift him different accessories of golf like golf drivers, ball, golf cap, shoes, golf gear cleaning kit etc.
Mostly boys are crazy about motocross race, so if your friend or boyfriend is also one of them, then you have a wide range of gifts to choose from. You can gift him motocross gear, helmet, shoes, cloths, gloves, goggles, hand bands etc. And you will see how he will adore your gifts and show gratitude for your love and care.
Perfumes are all time hit gift items. So, if it is the birthday of your male friend or his marriage anniversary or you want to congratulate him on his success, gift him a bottle of perfume bottles come in stylish shapes and designs along with various kinds of fragrances.
On this anniversary why not gift him a silver photo frame with a beautiful photo of yours. Photo frames are available in different colours and materials. You can get him a designer or a handmade photo frame for gift. If you want to make your gift personalized, you can make a photo frame instead of buying a one. Handmade photo frames have a personal touch, so are more loving and special
Other gifts can be designer wallets, wrist-lets, watches, key rings, sunglasses and cuff links. In choosing any gift one should keep in mind the taste of the recipient and his choices.